Wednesday, January 30, 2008

Two really good movies


I recently saw an amazing movie. It's in Italian so you have to read the captions the whole time, but it's definitely worth it. The director (Roberto Benigni) is also the main character in the film called "The Tiger and the Snow." He celebrates life in the most distressing of times which is such a beautiful concept to me. In the movie he plays a romantic poet who vows to go to the ends of the earth for the love of his life-even if that means going to Iraq at the dawn of the American invasion.

I originally saw a similar movie of his a few years ago called "Life is Beautiful." This one was set during WWII and labeled a tragicomedy. The same actor/director is sent to a concentration camp with his wife and young son. Throughout their imprisonment he refuses to give up hope by telling his son that they are part of an elaborate game where the winner receives a tank for the grand prize.

These descriptions may sound strange, but you have to see the movies for yourself. Just keep lots of tissues on hand.

Monday, January 28, 2008

A Beloved Prophet

I find myself very reflective today after the passing or our beloved Prophet Pres. Hinckley. He is the same age as my Grandpa and the first thing that comes to mind is how much longer I'll have grandpa here on the earth as well. My feelings for Pres. Hinckley are bittersweet as I imagine the reunions he is having with his wife and family. I'm also going to miss such an inspired leader who was such a big part of my life. He has been my prophet since I graduated from high school and has such guided me through major decision making portions of my life. I taught a lesson in Relief Society yesterday about the Life and Ministry of Joseph Smith and I thought how fitting to remember and honor to beloved prophets. At the end of my lesson I asked my brother to come to class and sing the Prophet Joseph's favorite him "A Poor Wayfaring Man of Grief," which was sung to him by John Taylor in Carthage Jail on the day of his martyrdom. This is how I like to remember Joseph Smith...in the last few hours of peace he had on the earth. Of the prophet Gordon B. Hinckley I like to think of him surrounded by his family on the sabbath day and the words of the following hymn come to my mind:

"We thank thee oh God for a Prophet to guide us in these latter days. We thank thee for sending the Gospel to lighten our minds with it's rays. We thank thee for every blessing...














January 27th, 2008 @ 9:00pm

Statement from the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints

SALT LAKE CITY — President Gordon B. Hinckley, who led The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints through nearly 13 years of global expansion, has died at the age of 97.

President Hinckley was the 15th president in the 177-year history of the Church and had served as its president since 12 March 1995.

The Church president died this evening at 7 p.m. of causes incident to age at home surrounded by his family. A successor is not expected to be formally chosen by the Church's Council of Twelve Apostles until after President Hinckley's funeral within the next few days.

President Hinckley was known, even at the age of 97, as a tireless leader who always put in a full day at the office and traveled extensively around the world to mix with Church members, now numbering more than 13 million in 160 nations.

His quick wit and humor combined with an eloquent style at the pulpit made him one of the most loved of modern Church leaders. A profoundly spiritual man, he had a great fondness for history and often peppered his sermons with stories from the Church's pioneer past.

He was a popular interview subject with journalists, appearing on "60 Minutes" with Mike Wallace and on CNN's "Larry King Live," as well as in hundreds of newspapers and magazines over the years. During the Salt Lake Olympics of 2002, his request that the Church refrain from proselytizing visitors was credited by media with generating much of the goodwill that flowed to the Church from the international event.

In recent years, a number of major developments in the Church reflected President Hinckley's personal drive and direction. In calling for 100 temples to be in operation before the end of the year 2000, the president committed the Church to a massive temple building program.

In 1999 - 169 years after the Church was organized by its founder, Joseph Smith - the Church had 56 operating temples. Three years later that number had doubled, largely because of a smaller, highly practical temple architectural plan that delivered these sacred buildings to Church members in far-flung parts of the world. Many more Church members can now experience the sacred ceremonies that occur only in temples, including marriages for eternity and the sealing of families in eternal units.

President Hinckley was the most traveled president in the Church's history. His duties have taken him around the world many times to meet with Latter-day Saints in more than 60 countries. He is the first Church president to travel to Spain, where in 1996 he broke ground for a temple in Madrid; and to the African nations of Nigeria, Ghana, Kenya, Zimbabwe and Cape Verde, where he met with thousands of Latter-day Saints in 1998.

At a general conference of Church members in April 2001, President Hinckley initiated the Perpetual Education Fund — an ambitious program to help young members of the Church (mainly returning missionaries from developing countries) receive higher education and work-related training in nations where they would otherwise likely never receive it.

Closer to his Salt Lake City home, President Hinckley announced the construction of a new Conference Center in 1996, and dedicated it four years later. Seating 21,000 people, it is believed to be the largest religious and theater auditorium in the world, and has become the hub for the Church's messages to the world, broadcast in 54 languages.

Even before his term as president, President Hinckley's extensive Church service included 14 years as a counselor in the First Presidency, the highest presiding body in the government of the Church, and for 20 years before that, as a member of the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles.

President Hinckley was born 23 June 1910, in Salt Lake City, a son of Bryant Stringham and Ada Bitner Hinckley. One of his forebears, Stephen Hopkins, came to America on the Mayflower. Another, Thomas Hinckley, served as governor of the Plymouth Colony from 1680 to 1692.

President Hinckley's first job was as a newspaper carrier for the Deseret News, a Salt Lake City daily. After attending public schools in Salt Lake City, he earned a bachelor of arts degree at the University of Utah and then served two years as a full-time missionary for the Church in Great Britain. He served with distinction and ultimately was appointed as an assistant to the Church apostle who presided over all the European missions.

Upon successfully completing his missionary service in the mid-1930s, he was asked by then Church President Heber J. Grant to organize what has become the Church's Public Affairs Department.

President Hinckley began serving as a member of the Sunday School general board in 1937, two years after returning home from missionary service in Great Britain. For 20 years he directed all Church public communications. In 1951 he was named executive secretary of the General Missionary Committee, managing the entire missionary program of the Church, and served in this capacity for seven years.

On 6 April 1958, while serving as president of the East Millcreek Stake in Salt Lake City (a stake is similar to a diocese), President Hinckley was appointed as a general authority, or senior full-time leader of the Church. In this capacity he served as an Assistant to the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles before being appointed to the Quorum of the Twelve Apostles on 5 October 1961.

President Hinckley has received a number of educational honors including the Distinguished Citizen Award from Southern Utah University; Distinguished Alumni Award from the University of Utah; and honorary doctorates from Westminster College, Utah State University, University of Utah, Brigham Young University, Southern Utah University, Utah Valley State College and Salt Lake Community College. The Gordon B. Hinckley Endowment for British Studies, a program focused on the arts, literature and history of the United Kingdom, was established at the University of Utah.

President Hinckley was awarded the Silver Buffalo Award by the Boy Scouts of America; was honored by the National Conference of Community and Justice (formerly the National Conference of Christians and Jews) for his contributions to tolerance and understanding in the world; and received the Distinguished Service Award from the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People.

In March 2000 President Hinckley addressed the National Press Club in Washington, D.C. He also has addressed the Religion Newswriters Association, the U.S. Conference of Mayors and twice has addressed the Los Angeles World Affairs Council.

President Hinckley has written and edited several books and numerous manuals, pamphlets and scripts, including a best-selling book, Standing for Something, aimed at a general audience. In it he champions the virtues of love, honesty, morality, civility, learning, forgiveness, mercy, thrift and industry, gratitude, optimism and faith. He also testifies of what he calls the "guardians of virtue," namely traditional marriage and family.

President Hinckley married Majorie Pay in the Salt Lake Temple in 1937. They are the parents of five children. Sister Hinckley passed away April 6, 2004.

Friday, January 25, 2008

Potty humor

We had a similar experience at the mall today although not as drawn out. We entered the bathroom stall and Evie announced that the whole bathroom stank (there were people in the stalls next to us). One of those people left the stall before us and started washing her hands. She was a manly looking woman and Evie got one look at her and announced that we were in the boys bathroom. It's good that kids are so honest I just wish they weren't always so vocal about it. Read on below:



I can only imagine....


A 3-year-old tells all from his mother's restroom stall
By Shannon Popkin

My little guy, Cade, is quite a talker. He loves to communicate and does it quite well. He talks to people constantly, whether we're in the library, the grocery store or at a drive-thru window.

People often comment on how clearly he speaks for a just-turned- 3-year-old. And you never have to ask him to turn up the volume. It's always fully cranked. There've been several embarrassing times that I've wished the meaning of his words would have been masked by a not-so-audible voice, but never have I wished this more than last week at Cosco.

Halfway, through our shopping trip, nature called, so I took Cade with me into the restroom. If you'd been one of the ladies in the restroom that evening, this is what you would have heard coming from the second to the last stall:

"Mommy, are you gonna go potty? Oh! Why are you putting toiwet paper on the potty, Mommy? Oh! You gonna sit down on da toiwet paper now? Mommy, what are you doing? Mommy, are you gonna go stinkies on the potty?"

At this point I started mentally counting how many women had been in the bathroom when I walked in. Several stalls were full . 4? 5? Maybe we could wait until they all left before I had to make my debut out of this stall and reveal my identity.

Cade continued, "Mommy, you ARE going stinkies aren't you? Oh, dats a good girl, Mommy! Are you gonna get some candy for going stinkies on the potty?

Let me see doze stinkies, Mommy! Oh .. Mommy! I'm trying to see in dere. Oh! I see dem. Dat is a very good girl, Mommy. You are gonna get some candy!"

I heard a few faint chuckles coming from the stalls on either side of me. Where is a screaming newborn when you need her? Good grief. This was really getting embarrassing. I was definitely waiting a long time before exiting.

Trying to divert him, I said, "Why don't you look in Mommy's purse and see if you can find some candy. We'll both have some!"

"No, I'm trying to see doze more stinkies. Oh! Mommy!" He started to gag at this point. "Uh oh, Mommy. I fink I'm gonna frow up. Mommy, doze stinkies are making me frow up!! Dat is so gross!!" As the gags became louder, so did the chuckles outside my stall. I quickly flushed the toilet in hopes of changing the subject. I began to reason with myself: OK. There are four other toilets. If I count four flushes, I can be reasonably assured that those who overheard this embarrassing monologue will be long gone.

"Mommy! Would you get off the potty, now? I want you to be done going stinkies! Get up! Get up!" He grunted as he tried to pull me off. Now I could hear full-blown laughter. I bent down to count the feet outside my door.

"Oh, are you wooking under dere, Mommy? You wooking under da door? What were you wooking at, Mommy? You wooking at the wady's feet?" More laughter.

I stood inside the locked door and tried to assess the situation.

"Mommy, it's time to wash our hands, now. We have to go out now, Mommy." He started pounding on the door. "Mommy, don't you want to wash your hands? I want to go out!!"

I saw that my "wait 'em out" plan was unraveling. As I sheepishly opened the door, and found an open sink, I thought, Where's the fine print on the 'motherhood contract' where I signed away every bit of my privacy?

But as my little boy gave me a big, cheeky grin while he rubbed bubbly soap between his chubby little hands, I thought, I'd sign it all away again, just to be known as Mommy to this little fellow.

(Shannon Popkin is a freelance writer and mother of three. She lives with her family in Grand Rapids, MI, where she no longer uses public restrooms )

Wednesday, January 23, 2008

Budding photographer

I decided to try my hand at a little home photography taking photos of the girls for Christmas. Here's how they turned out.








Fun with Addy!

Addy likes to plug her nose and say "Stinky" when I'm changing her poopie diaper. Makes me wonder why she took her diaper off during nap time the other day (again) and played with the contents. Gross!!



We came home from church the other day and Addison starting getting undressed. She especially likes to take her own diaper off (not a good thing when it's messy) as often as she can these days. She still had her socks and shoes on and ran around the house for awhile in this state. Such inhibition!

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Lost in space

We made it six years and we're still going strong! This weekend my hubby and I ran away to celebrate our wedding anniversary (thanks mom and dad for staying with the kids). Several months ago we went to a travelshare presentation and they gave us a free room at the anniversary inn. Because it was free we didn't get to choose which room they put us in. Sooooooo, we were given the "Lost in space" room and it was awesome! I attached some photos so you can get an idea of what it was like. My absolute favorite part of the room was the rocket toilet. The toilet was located all by itself inside a simulated rocket. There were control panels inside and flashing red lights. All of the walls and ceiling were painted with glow in the dark paint and lit up with black lights. The whole room just glowed. The mirror also had some funky lights in it that gave you a tunneled illusion. The metallic curtain and silver blinds were also a nice touch. We had a perfect view of the Logan temple from our bed which was beautiful. There was cheesecake and chilled sparkling cidar waiting in the room when we arrived and the next morning a yummy breakfast of pastries and yogurt parfait was delivered to our door. All I can say is "Beam me up scotty!" Can't wait to do it again.



Tuesday, January 15, 2008

Christmas 2007

I know I'm a little behind but that's what happens in the middle of buying and selling a house. Christmas was spent in Star Valley this year with my side of the family. Of course my girls were spoiled constantly by grandma and grandpa and it took me a week to sugar detox them and get them back into a routine. We played in the abundance of snow that Wy. provides. Evie enjoyed riding on the snowmobile around the hayfield. We even pulled Mark behind it on his snowboard for a little creative fun. There were a lot cousins, grandparents, aunts and uncles to visit and play games with. We stayed up waaaaaayyyyy too late every night playing games and it was hard to function with the kids in mornings (vacations are rough). My sister brought her PSP and Mark and I were initiated into Guitar Hero and Dance dance revolution. We are totally addicted now and are saving our pennies for our own. The most entertaining thing was watching my mom and dad face off. On Christmas Eve we enjoyed our usual traditions of opening new p.j.'s, reading the Christmas story from Luke and setting our milk and cookies for Santa. Christmas morning was all about the girls. Because they were the only small kids there we let them have all glory. It was a lot easier to let them open their presents first and then put Addy down for a nap so that we could open ours. Addy loved her new baby doll from Santa and Evie's favorite was her new princess dress up clothes. In the middle of opening presents we got a call from Mark's brother Michael on his mission in Russia. Turns out they celebrate Christmas on Jan. 7th over there. Later that day we all went over to grandpa's house to help him celebrate and watch him open his gifts. This is his second holiday season without his dear companion and it's still hard. Next it was off to the church to play B-ball and V-ball and let the girls run around the gym. We played hard enough to have sore muscles the next day but it was a good kind of sore. Of course a visit to S.V. wouldn't be complete without biscuits and gravy from grandma Clines. The girls and I rode him with my sister from St. George and it was quite an adventure. She didn't have snow tires and we had pretty bad roads the whole way home. Always an adventure. What mattered most was that we were able to make memory's together which is more important than anything else in life. Until someone takes that opportunity away from you you really don't know what your missing.


Phoneraiser


Many of you know that as a child I suffered from Non-Hodgkins Lymphoma. After 18 mo. of chemo and radiation I was considered cured and have since lived a healthy life. Because of my experience and the things I've learned I now feel it's my duty as an adult to give back in any way that I can. So.................

I'm conducting a "phoneraiser" for the Leukemia & Lymphoma Society for the next month. I'm asking anyone with a used cell phone or ink cartridge to donate them to me. There are online companies that recycle these items and pay the charity of your choice a small stipend. All of the proceeds will then go to the LLS as I'm trying to get more involved in cancer research and support. Also, my family and I will be doing the Relay For Life again the spring for anyone that wants to get involved. Thanks again for all your support.

p.s. if you'd like to mail the items e-mail me and I'll send you my address.

Thursday, January 10, 2008

Dancing with a true gentleman

My cute little 18 yr. old (I know) cousin got married in November and most of my family went down to St. George to her wedding. It was like a family reunion and we had a blast. At the reception they had a D.J. We brought my Grandpa with us and we were about to take him home for the night when he announced that he wasn't leaving until all of his granddaughters danced with him. There were 10 of us plus his 2 daughters! He is 96 yrs. old! It was a treasured moment. Dancing was something he and my grandma did a lot throughout their married life. In fact, they met at a military dance as grandpa was in the Army. As they got older and it was harder to get around they would just stand in the living room and sway to the music. We lost my grandma almost two years ago and we are so happy that my grandpa is doing so well and still dancing!

My Grandpa and I
With the Bride...Jordan(she's gorgeous I know)

My sister Rachel. Look at all your tall beautiful granddaughters grandpa!

Our house is for sale!!


Our house is officially on the market and we are both excited to move on and sad to leave our cute little house.  We have been here for 5 1/2 years and it our home holds a lot of memories.  At least we will be able to drive by it a lot as we are only moving 4 houses up the street.  I know it sounds crazy but we got lucky getting a HUD house that needs just a little work and we really love our neighborhood and ward.  So, I'm using my blog as a real estate advertisement.  Tell anyone you know that they can have a nice house in Ogden for a good price.  The best part about our place is the mother-in-law apt. in the bsmt!  Here's the link to the official ad on KSL.  

http://www.ksl.com/index.php?nid=218&ad=2463412&cat=

Mess-maker, mess-maker, make me a mess...


Addy's at the age where she likes to get into EVERYTHING!!  While I was on the phone she found a stamp and decided to decorate her lips and hands (So pretty!)

Then I took the stamp away....(so sad)